Our suffering happens for us not to us. As hard as it is, the things that almost break us are the things that came to make us whole. To rejiggle things enough to get you back into alignment. To smash the pieces that were actually stuck together in the first place. To shake your foundations enough so you can build new ones that no situation or person could ever break. We are entering a time in history where anything inauthentic simply cannot survive. So love your suffering and don't fight it. It's there to teach you a lesson and lead you back to your most authentic self. Simply stand out of the way and let the universe do it's thang.